[1]. Fostering Fear And Minder In Children
Sometimes, when a child cries, we scare them to stop crying. We fear them with ghost picture, genie, wind noise and others. In effect, the child will grow up to be a coward: Fear of his own shadow, afraid of something that was not to be feared. For example, fear to the bathroom alone, afraid to sleep alone because often hear stories about ghosts, jinn and others.
The most severe and without realizing it, we have to instill fear to himself. Or for example, we are concerned when they fell and there was blood on his face, hands or knees. Yet should we be calm and show a smile to face the fear of the child. Instead of just scare her, slapped her face, or scold him and exaggerate the problem. As a result, children are increasingly loud crying, and will get used to be afraid when they see blood or feel pain.
[2]. Educate Being Arrogant, Long Tongue, Snippy Against Other People. And It Regarded As Courageous attitude.
This error is the opposite point first. The truth is that being the middle, not excessive and not minus-less. Dare not need to be cocky or arrogant to others. However, bold attitude and harmonious place of fear when it is something that should be feared. For example: fear of lying, because he knows, if God does not like the kid who likes to lie, or the fear of dangerous wild animals. We educate our children to be brave and not afraid to practice the truth.
[3]. Children familiarize luxury of Life And Proud.
With this practice, the child can grow into a child who likes luxury, like to have fun. Only themselves, no matter the circumstances of others. Educating children as this can damage the nature, kill attitude constancy in being ascetic in the world, membinasakah muru'ah (self-esteem) and truth.
[4]. Always Meets Demand Kids
Most parents are always there to give every child desired, without thinking about the good and bad for children. In fact, not every child the desired beneficial or appropriate to the age and needs. For example, the child asked for a new bag that is a trend, when only a month ago parents bought a new bag. It is only going to squander money. If children are accustomed fulfilled all his request, then they will grow into a child who does not care about the value of money and the severity of making a living. And they will be people who can not spend their money well.
[5]. Always Meets Demand Son, when Crying, especially small children.
It often happens, we are still a small child asking something. If we reject it for a reason, it will force or pull out his gun, which is crying. Finally, parents will soon meet his request for pity or that the child immediately stopped crying. This can cause the child to be weak, whiny and had no identity.
[6]. Too Hard And Rigid Led Them, Fairness Limit Exceeded.
For example, by hitting them up bruised, scolded by yelling and scolding, or in ways other hard. This sometimes happens when the child accidentally doing wrong. Though he (probably) only once did.
[7]. Too Stingy In Kids, Fairness Limit Exceeded
There are also parents who are too stingy to his children, until the children feel less fulfilled needs. In the end it encourages children to make money themselves with various ways. For example: by stealing, begging to others, or in any other way. What's worse, there are parents who could entrust their children to the orphanage to reduce the burden on him. In fact, some who could sell their children, because they are not able to make a living
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